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Alex in Motion

A journal of curiousity & travel

Into Argentina

Whenever travelling, I normally research the country and/or the city, so I know the best locations to stay, the various modes of transportation, how tipping works, basic safety concerns, top places to visit, etc. For this, my top site is wikitravel.org, followed by some google searches.

With Argentina however, I purposely omitted this research, in an effort simply to change the way I do things, to introduce a new perspective and to gain a sense of spontaneity. Well, I intend to do that mistake only once…

No sooner than arriving at the airport did I learn that although an official visa is not required to enter Argentina, a Reciprocity fee of $92 USD is required. This fee applies to Canadian and American residents, and must be paid in full and in advance.

Luckily I arrived well in advance of the flight, and the woman at the check-in counter recommended to go into the adjacent Marriott hotel to complete the form online and print the receipt. The kind gentleman at Marriott guided me through the entire process, commenting, “Ya, this happens about twice a week.”

Once completed, I then learned that traveling without a fixed itinerary doesn’t bode well for some countries, and Argentina could have refused entry without a return flight or known means of exit. Luckily there wasn’t an issue at customs; they only asked where I was staying.

Emotionally, I’ve experienced a wide range of feelings recently, including

  • anxiety: starting two days before the trip
  • extreme sadness: saying farewell to my parents and brother at the airport
  • fear: realizing that I am truly free for the next year, without any responsibility or schedule. Yes, it sounds great, but the initial realization how dramatically your life is about to change doesn’t strike until you actually do it!

Note to self: when afraid of turbulence, don’t watch an episode of “The Walking Dead” on the plane. It doesn’t help the nerves, really.

To Alex

My grandmother wrote this poem when I was twelve.  I just found it while sorting through some old papers and wanted to share it with you.  It’s strangely appropriate to the moment. 🙂

When you were a child, life was so easy.
Your duties were few, you could play all day;
At night mother would bathe you, blow dry your hair
And read you a wonderful fairy tale.

Your dreamed of being a hero of those stories:
Flying the magic carpet to exotic land,
Outsmarting the bad giant, finding the Golden Fleece,
Killing a vicious dragon to win the princess’ hand.

You believed all this could very well happen
When you will become a little bit older
When you will finally turn twelve or thirteen
The adventures will wait just around the corner.

Now you are twelve and it’s high school and homework.
You are missing the freedom that you once had,
Your body has changed, you’re rapidly growing
And sometimes you’re happy and sometimes you’re sad.

You’re wondering: “Why those hours of study?
What will French or math ever do for me?”
You would rather watch t.v., read comics,
Go skiing, play computer games or D&D.

Well, the world of working people is demanding.
You need the skills to succeed in any given field.
The knowledge you have gained will one day come handy,
It will be in the future your weapon, your shield.

When school is over you’ll start your life as an adult.
The years are passing swiftly and you will soon be there
To make your own decisions, commitments and choices
It will be more exciting than any fairy tale!

The unwalked path

It’s been several months since I made the big decision, and my attitude on life has changed significantly.

The decision actually was made about 6 months before the departure date, which  pretty much follows the recommended “6 months left to live” thought experiment.  And when you’re leaving everyone and everything soon, there are two ways to view things:

  1. Nothing matters, i.e. What’s the point?
  2. Everything matters, i.e. We won’t see each other in a long time so let’s cherish this moment!

Being the optimist, I’ve adopted the latter approach, and by doing so, all interactions with friends and family have become more intense, more alive and simply more enjoyable.  Further, by acknowledging the limited time, I’ve spent more time with people that mean a lot, and less time with those that don’t.

There will be some I will miss much more than others, like my 6 year old nephew.  Sammy and I have a strong kinship, and our play-dates together are always filled with laughter and running (this guy seriously loves to run everywhere!).  He recently discovered the postal service and examines his mailbox daily in case a letter with his name magically appears.

To encourage his curiously and maintain our bond, I purchased and shipped a children’s world map to him, which not only displays each country, but also the people and animals that live there.  He posted it on his bedroom wall and will place push-pins as I move from country to country.  I’ll also send postcards with trivia puzzles to solve.  E.g.: “I’m looking at a kangaroo; where I am now and what’s so special about kangaroos?”

After spinning my own globe a few times, I finally decided where to invest the next year.  Given there are many parts of the world I’ve never seen and are bloody far away, instead of visiting one at a time and returning home, I’ll take advantage of the extended period to enjoy one after another.  Enter Southeast Asia.

Since there’s no rush getting there, taking the long way makes sense, right?  And so my journey will begin in South America, followed by South Africa, Dubai and then India.

A friend of mine just moved to Ecuador, so it’ll be a good first step, followed by

  • Buenos Aires, a town I’ve heard too many good things to pass up
  • Capetown, a couple of friends warned I may never leave this cool city
  • Dubai, another friend lives there
  • India

After India, I’m open to wherever the wind takes me, but really want to visit

  • Philippines
  • Hong Kong
  • Japan
  • Australia
  • New Zealand
  • Fiji

Here’s my proposed path

If you’ve been to any of these countries, feel free to share your memories and recommendations.

I also want to return to Poland and my buddy Stef suggested we meet up in east Russia and take the Trans-Siberian Railway west to Moscow.  Sounds like a plan!

I see my path, but I don’t know where it leads. Not knowing where I’m going is what inspires me to travel it.
– Rosalia de Castro

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