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Cape Town, Part 2

The second half of Cape Town, lasting just under 2 weeks, was a little different than the first half. The biggest change was spending much more time with locals, the most special of which was Barbara.

About 50 years ago, my mom traveled through Greece and met a wonderful and energetic young girl from South Africa. They had a smashing time, and started a long distance pen-pal friendship, first by letter and later by email. Even though they haven’t seen each other in 50 years, my mom’s diligent and constant communication kept the relationship alive and beating strong. So when Barbara learned I was in Cape Town, she immediately sought me out.

I spent several days with her and her extremely knowledgeable husband, Gavin, and they introduced me to their town from a local’s perspective. This included a few scenic day trips, kayaking at their yacht club, visiting her son’s vineyard, trekking along Table Mountain to Kirstenbosh botanical garden, dining at a savoury Ethiopian restaurant and celebrating Christmas at their place with family and friends.

Thank you, mom! Thank you, Barbara!

Aside from many precious moments with them, I visited the township of Lunga, which is the oldest and most dangerous township around Cape Town. A township is basically a settlement with poor, predominantly black or coloured (mixed races) locals and immigrants seeking jobs. They are the remains of the apartheid legislation and shacks are usually constructed by the occupant with random spare materials, with electricity but no running water.

Most townships are self-regulated, so that if someone commits a crime, the entire community punishes the guilty. The inhabitants are surprisingly cheerful and good-natured, which proves you don’t need much to be happy. With a guide, I entered two huts, and was surprised how clean and orderly they were. The owner of one, named Shooter, was ingenious in creating a sky light from a clear plastic sheet and a folding chair.

Veronica is my brother’s friend from Montreal, who moved to Dubai about 9 years ago and met her husband, Tom, several years ago. As New Year’s Eve approached, I thought it would be cool to visit them in Dubai, but they decided to celebrate with me in Cape Town instead. We made reservations at Pasha, an Ibiza-themed evening at a beach hotel along the waterfront, and cheered at midnight with champagne and fireworks. Tom, the thoughtful and generous man that he is, without knowing me for more than 2 minutes, handed over a couple of hundred dollars in cash after learning about my lost wallet. He had been in a similar situation, and appreciated the kindness of strangers to help him along.

Thank you, Tom!

The last week in Cape Town was mostly spent with a local math teacher, Ashley, who showed me even more of a local’s view of Cape Town, including

  • First Thursdays, an monthly event in which downtown art galleries open their doors without admission
  • Biscuit Mill in Woodstock , a weekly event where locals sell food, clothing and trinkets
  • Die Strandloper, a fantastic coastal seafood restaurant with a 10 course meal, and who’s decorations reminded me of a cross between Pirates of the Caribbean and a remote desert island
  • Ceres steam train, a 3 hour ride in a restored steam train along a nature reserve, including a stop for lunch at an organic vineyard
  • Cape Point, the southern most point in the Western Cape province and a World Heritage Site, with lots of hiking trails and panoramic views of the ocean

Thank you, Ashley!

Overall, my mood has brightened considerably since losing my wallet, thanks to kind people and shifting my mindset to realize these kinds of problems aren’t so awful in the grand scheme of things.

Cape Town was a lovely experience, one I wish to repeat in the future. For now though, my journey will head east along the coast to Durban, Johannesburg and then Kruger national park for a safari.

Struggles

With so much free time, I’ve started to feel guilty for not spending it more productively. Instead of working on a plan for world domination, mornings are spent sleeping in late and surfing the web. Then I wander down to the beach to read, usually followed by drinks at a cafe. Later in the evening is a simple dinner and an early bedtime. In between, there are an abundance of moments where my mind wanders into space, not thinking about anything at all. OK, so it doesn’t sound that bad when written, but I still feel I could do more with the day.

I acknowledge part of this trip is learning to accept/dismiss guilt and move past it, to just enjoy the moment and not be so concerned about what I could be doing or thinking. It’s also about learning the importance of building your own happiness, since there’s no one else to provide it. Both are easier said than done!

There are moments I feel quite lonely, which is amplified by being in a major city, surrounded by people from all over the world. While in the countryside, I find it’s normal to be and feel alone since there are physically less people around you. In cities however, I feel much more of an outsider, not having friends to chat with and having challenges making new friends with locals. Surrounded by all this potential to connect and yet not connecting, I feel isolated.

What’s cute is I occasionally see people wearing shirts with slogans such as “live in the moment” or “be happy and travel” and I sheepishly admit it temporarily lifts my spirit. Living the dream isn’t always as awesome as one imagines, and I’m learning this journey isn’t as straightforward as anticipated.

For example, there have been some losses along the way:

  • Left the GoPro in a hotel in Buenos Aires, and everyone claimed not to have found it. I don’t blame the cleaning lady, since opportunities make the criminal and it’s an expensive toy. I had to wait until South Africa before buying another, since prices in Argentina were 4 times that of Canada, and then the new one didn’t work properly. Returning it was a pain in the ass, since the store was at the airport, past security and I had to heavily negotiate with the lady to replace it on the spot.
  • They lost my luggage in Sao Paulo, so I had to buy some new clothes and manage in Cape Town for 4 days. This wasn’t so bad, since my visa card compensates me up to $500 CAD and I got a sweet pair of really comfortable sandals.
  • My GoPro gimbal broke, and after shedding a tear for the loss, I realized bringing it probably wasn’t the best idea in the first place. It’s too delicate and I was stressed about it being stolen.
  • Lost my phone in an Uber, but was luckily able to quickly retrieve it. Thankfully there was a friendly neighbour nearby to call my phone.
  • Lost my wallet near the beach. I don’t exactly know how this happened but it’s the biggest loss so far; credit card, debit card and driver’s license, gone. I carefully retraced my steps and asked around, but it was truly gone. Interestingly, it took a long time for me to leave the area because I felt that by doing so, it was admitting defeat. The process for getting replacements are in progress, but it’s a long and painful process. I also need to depend on others for help, which is something I’m not used to.

Now that the worst loss is behind me (I hope!), I’m trying to draw strength knowing future challenges will be easier. I also remind myself I still have my health and sweet new sandals, so things aren’t THAT bad.

Cape Town, Part 1

Flying for 25 hours with 3 layovers is not something anyone would consider a pleasant time, but good company can change all of that. Meeting Kim, a South African teacher on the flight from Soa Paulo, Brazil to Addis Ababa, Ethiopia, made the hop across the pond much more enjoyable. It started by celebrating her birthday, where the stewardess happily served champagne and cake (without candles) and then sang happy birthday along with the captain.

The awesome thing about meeting fellow travelers is connections are amplified. There isn’t time or a desire to waste time on meaningless conversations, and instead you immerse yourself in being silly, depending on each other and just being true to yourself. Kim also provided many helpful recommendations about her home country, and I adjusted my plans accordingly.

Some Montreal friends bet I stop my world journey in Cape Town, and after a week here, I fully understand why they said that. It’s a magically city with so many possibilities and activities at your fingertips! Here are some things I’ve done:

  • A hop-on, hop-off city bus tour, to get a good perspective of the city and surroundings
  • A wine tour to Stellenbosch and Franschhoek, visiting 4 vineyards. Unlike the wine tour in Menoza, I paced the sampling and had a glass of water between glasses. Result: was not smashed at the end of the day
  • Great white shark cage diving, which allowed me to get up close and personal with the fishies while safely in a steel cage. Lots of video footage was taken but no pictures. The boat was so rocky that 6 people unloaded their lunch over the side, and one couple didn’t manage to get into the cage at all
  • Watched the sunset with friends of friends on Clifton beach, followed by watching a fire juggling show along with a thousand other spectators
  • Hiked up the iconic Table Mountain on a cloudless morning, to watch the sun welcome us over the crest. Spectacular views from the windy top
  • Drank mojito and various cocktails from the famous Caprice Cafe, where models and men with huge egos are found aplenty

Simply put, Cape Town is wonderful: marvelous scenery, physically active people, shit tons of things to do, and a primal sense of the birth of mankind. Also, I’ve had no concerns for safety, other than you would in any other major city.

To respond to the bet, would I move here? Possibly, if I could be paid in USD, as the Rand is a very weak currency. It’s also challenging to engage with the locals, as they tend to stay in their well-established groups and don’t always welcome strangers. Especially demanding for a shy introvert.

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